Dad’s first flight came just years before a stroke took away his words, then spiraled him toward the grave like a penny spun into a charity funnel, round and round and suddenly gone.

"When are you coming back, mamma?" asks my three-year-old. Only his forehead is visible on the screen, and then I see his lips puckered and zoomed out as he kisses the phone.

I could not stop the boy from running home with the treasure he had found half-buried in the dirt on the street, gooey and translucent like a jellyfish washed up on the beach …